Your Groom is Bored

You as the bride may not see it, but I do. While setting up my equipment, I often see him wondering around with little to do. Meanwhile, you’re spending hours getting your makeup and hair done.

Now this is more true for smaller bridal parties. But even with big bridal parties this can be a problem. If six guys are hanging around all day with little planned, this is when the beers open up. You can call my old fashioned, but I don’t think it’s best to show up to the ceremony toasted.

What’s the solution? I have no great idea, but maybe giving him some tasks isn’t a bad idea. At least then when his buddies ask how they can help, he’ll have more to say than, “I don’t know, she’s running the show today”.